'ensinei minha filha a negociar aos 2 anos'
Laurie Nathan, mediador de conflitosO especialista e professor da Universidade de Pretória, na África do Sul, está lecionando na Escola de Inverno da Unidade do Sul Global para Mediação, na PUC-RioLeo Martins"Cresci na África do Sul durante o apartheid, alheio à realidade desigual do país. Na faculdade, entrei para um movimento de oposição ao governo e, quando o sistema de discriminação racial acabou, tornei-me um pacifista. Já atuei em guerras civis de diversos países da África, como Sudão e Mali,E no Oriente Médio"Conte algo que eu não sei.Tem algo que você sabe, mas pensa que não sabe. Quando você está num conflito com sua família, seu chefe ou seus amigos, você fica preso. Quando você pensa a respeito, sabe o que significa. Mas quando está preso num conflito e não consegue se desatar e está cheio de raiva, não percebe esta situação. Como mediador, vejo isso com frequência. Quando se percebe isso, fica mais fácil resolver a questão.Mick Jagger disse que a gente não pode conseguir sempre tudo o que quer, mas que, se tentar, pode conseguir algo de que precisa...Sim. Você pode não conseguir tudo o que quer, mas pode conseguir algo do que quer em troca de ceder um pouco. O importante é chegar a uma solução satisfatória para os dois lados. Isto vale para guerras civis e para dentro de casa.O mesmo conceito de mediação se aplica em casa e nas negociações de paz para acabar com guerras civis?A mediação de conflitos vale para o cotidiano. Eu ensinei minha filha a negociar aos 2 anos. Eu dizia: "Rebecca, você não vai almoçar sorvete." Ela ameaçava chorar e eu falava: "Não vamos brigar, me ofereça um trato." Aí ela propunha, por exemplo, comer uma colher de comida para cada colher de sorvete. Então, eu topava. Claro, há certas coisas inegociáveis, como dar a mão para atravessar a rua ou usar cinto de segurança.Mas não é tão simples assim em negociações de conflitos entre rebeldes e o governo do Sudão, por exemplo...A maior dificuldade nesses...
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